[Anna]

I was going to suggest something but after checking your site I can see that you have already done it so I won’t bother…

Smartypants!!

:cheer:

[Anna]

It certainly makes you wonder doesn’t it?

We were very careful regarding the terms of service and we complied in every way.

Never mind. This speaks volumes really and the damage this has created won’t be felt by either Jess or I.

In future anything we think up will be safely tucked away on our server, onwards and upwards and the real victors will be the girls with the sales 😉

[Anna]

I’m really sorry everyone but our group has been deleted again.

I set it up 25th June and told a few of my buyers about it and it seemed safe.

I announced it as open on here on the 7th July. I then announced it on my blog on the 9th July and invited people to join.

Jess announced it on her blog yesterday – withing 48hrs of our blogs the group gets deleted after being safe and untouched for 16 days – how strange.

Again there has been no email from Yahoo! and this time we ensured that all our members stated their age.  Our photos were no more that you’d see on a beach.  Our group was in the Adult section which Yahoo! supports.  To my knowledge there are several sellers with Yahoo! groups which don’t seem to have any problems – and long may this continue.

I suppose it really is a case of who you know eh?

[Anna]

So no problems reported with PO Boxes but make sure you have your CN22 label on the parcel then, just to be sure…

Thanks Cinders

[Anna]

[quote author=Jules link=topic=1295.msg7980#msg7980 date=1152561983]

Does anyone know what the biggest size parcel can be without needing a CN22 label?

If I’m just sending panties my jiffy bags are 6″ x 5″ if that’s any help.

[Anna]

Hi ifap4.  I’m sure it doesn’t. Think about how many PO Boxes there are in every country who has them…there must be millions, private and business.  No one will bother about them just because they are a PO Box address.

Plus very small parcels are treated as letters so there is even less chance of them being looked at. When I sent my panties for PT verification to the US the parcel went as a letter so didn’t even need a CN22 label.

I haven’t personally posted to Oz but I’ve read on here that girls have and there have been no reported problems with customs.

Hope this helps and has eased your mind somewhat

[Anna]

Neither does Jess! It’s just a nice burr that’s lovely to listen to.

smt

[Anna]

[quote author=Jess link=topic=1130.msg7967#msg7967 date=1152360169]
I’m from Burminghum!! I inflicted my accent upon the rather posh Lady Anna the other week. I felt shamed! It’s just plain wrong!!

smt

Awww give over, I ain’t posh, just talk proper like  😉

[Anna]

A brilliant idea but I’m not that technically minded yet, not at all technically minded actually but one day soon when I know what’s what I may do  :rolleyes:

[Anna]

Thank you Jules  smt

I’ve got fingers and toes crossed that it’ll still be there this time next week!

[Anna]

Roll up! Roll up!

Anna and Jess’ Yahoo! group is back up and running.  We need lots of guys who want to win free panties to become members  :cheer:

UsedEnglishPanties4U

Full profiles only please so we can be sure that there is no valid reason for this group to be closed down.

Let’s see how long this one lasts eh?  😉

smt

[Anna]

[quote author=hotsimonne link=topic=1289.msg7948#msg7948 date=1152213074]
Hello Anna, thank you so much for your wisdom! thats a lot to keep me going with!
It seems like one of the things you dont know if you like until you try, so I’ll give it a go!
Thanks again!
Simmie x

You may find that you had a natural talent for it all this time  😉

[Anna]

It bothers me, but then who are we to say North Korea can or can’t have missiles?

Every country should be entitled to its own penis extensions don’t you think?

[Anna]

Hi Simmie

Okay, that’s a lot of questions…but I will try and answer them to best of my knowledge and experience.

1. First and foremost rule…they pay upfront. Simple.

2. One thing you must always remember when dealing with these guys is there are 1000s of them, but only 100s of you.  Supply and demand, simple economics, if they want it they will pay for it.

3. If they aren’t prepared to pay upfront then forget them. Don’t be kidded with ‘I don’t trust you yet‘ or ‘Paying for it takes the edge of it for me‘ or my absolute all time favourite ‘If you really enjoyed it you’d do it for nothing‘. Yeah right because everyone works for free right?

4. When you say punishment or they say punishment ask them to be specific.  They know what they like and so they can tell you.  Then and only then, if you like it too, do you play with them.  You’re a Mistress not a Psychic, and they are there to serve you not visa versa.

5. Some egotistical little jerks like to pretend to be subs because they want to try and manipulate you,  by turning the tables on you and making you jump through their hoops.  Real subs are respectful, engaging, thoughtful and most of all they want to serve you and please you.

6. A sub will suggest that you do something to him like ‘Please Mistress don’t make me eat my own cum‘ that can be translated as ‘I’d love to eat my own cum but I have to be made to do it or I might have to deal with the fact that I’m gay, but if Mistress [i]makes me, forces me then I know I’m not and I can continue with my life happy and secure that I’m normal because she made me[/i]’. Get the picture?  This is when guys do understand hinting!!

7. A sub will never refuse you anything unless it is particularly obnoxious to him.  It’s best to establish boundaries before you start play.  He must tell you what he absolutely won’t do.

8. Charging is very difficult.  Consider this – a real time Mistress will charge £100 – £150 an hour. Think about how long it will take you to devise punishments, email with him, IM with him etc, it takes a damn long time so you need to make sure you charge for your time.  Whatever you do, do not undercharge, do not devalue yourself.

Men appreciate what they pay a lot for – look how long they spend polishing their cars!  If they aren’t prepared to pay your prices based on your time then sod them, let them find some other tin pot ‘Mistress’ who hasn’t learnt her worth yet. 

To give you an example, I’ve spent most of the day today with my sub shopping, about £355 on shoes and a further £180 cash because I dressed him up as my maid and made him fold up all my panties and vacuum my bedroom. Granted this is based on real time and because I’m so damn good but it will you give you an idea of what some subs are willing to pay for the right Mistress.  That might sound like a lot but he had 5 hours of my time, that’s approx £100 an hour, the going rate.

9. You can make your subs perform for you on webcam too, make them wear your panties, on their head too, make them dance, make them attach clothes pegs to their balls, or tabasco sauce or Deep Heat to their cock.  They will pay for this.  They need to be validated, but they have to respect you.

10. As soon as a jerk starts waving his credit card at you dump him.  Some of them aren’t subs, they are just pigs who think you can be controlled.

11. If you’re soft you won’t last at this. 

12. If you don’t enjoy it you won’t last at this.

13. It is fun and it’s very rewarding but be prepared for a lot of jerks.  These jerks prey on new panty girls and Mistresses because they haven’t learned all the tricks yet.

14. Don’t copy someone else’s style. Be yourself at all times.  A lot of Mistresses shout and use crude language, as if it’s expected so they do it.  I don’t, it’s not my style at all and in return I have some wonderful subs who respect me for my manner.  I don’t believe that you need to use bad language to humilate anyone.  However if you are comfortable with that then that’s fine as well, just remember that you have to keep it up or you’ll look like you’re playing a part.

15. If the sub asks for something and you don’t know what it is just ask them. They appreciate you being honest rather than you pretending to know what they want.  They do need to know that you enjoy humiliating or torturing them, they’ll suss you out if you don’t.

Gosh, that’s rather a lot to be going on with, but basically just remember to make them pay upfront.  Many a ‘pretendy sub’ has screwed some freebie time from me as I’ve been learning my skills, bastards.  This is your business as well as fun and if they’re decent they’ll understand that.

Have fun!

Anna

[Anna]

Thank you girls for all your congratulations, hugs and kisses

You’re the best  smt

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