[darkhairedkaren]

Welcome ACS!  Yes, Andie and ACS, I do a fair number of butt-musk panties.  Several times a day (for a few days or a few weeks) I rub the rear panty fabric on my cinnamon ring, transfering all the good smells, so by the time I actually wear the panty it’s the assiest-smelling thing for miles around!  :)  If you freshen the panty by holding it over a steaming kettle for a few seconds, the kick-back of ass smell is unbelievable.  I have a regular who is a devoted “ass man”, and he loves my “marinated panties”.  :cheer:

I’ve also got another way to provide ass smell that involves other materials…  Trade secret – message me if you want to know more!  😉

[darkhairedkaren]

The upgrade seems to be taking a few days, and lots of things seem out of order right now (feedbacks, fee mechanisms, etc.)  I’m going to check back often but not post any new auctions until it looks like they have all the stuff sorted.

Ebanned is a business like any other, so whatever they are doing must be, in their estimation, to improve the site.  Whether you or I still want to use it will be an individual decision.  There are other ways to buy and sell panties (other auction sites, personal sites, etc.) – no one is forcing anyone to use Ebanned if s/he doesn’t want to.  

If you want to channel your anger into something constructive you can send a private e-mail to the admins, politely letting them know your feelings and concerns.  In the end, making the resources in the panty community better is of benefit to all of us.  🙂

Edited to say: I’m with Krooze – if anyone is feeling hostility I don’t understand why.  Use of Ebanned is on a transaction-by-transaction basis.  You pay for something, you get that item/service.  That’s where any entitlement ends, until you enter into a new (one-off) transaction.

[darkhairedkaren]

Further to what PK and Chandie have said, I “advertise” simply by being around places where used panty buyers tend to be.  I read/post on the Panty Hog forums and the Ebanned forums just about every day, and occasionally use the chat functions on these sites.  Just by being involved in the community you get some good visibility.  Also, by having a site (any site, even a free one – I have a free used panty blog), those searching for panties can see/learn something about you at any time.

I’ve never advertised on Craigslist, but any online classified ads I’ve posted have never garnered any responses.  I did answer a “want” ad online for used panties…  How I got my start.  🙂

Welcome, Angyl!  smt

[darkhairedkaren]

Welcome, Elle!

It’s certainly appropriate to reveal your own personal style in your seller persona.  :)  I think the women who sell successfully either a) present a fantasy persona that really appeals to buyers (e.g. through good looks and or/revealing photos), or b) are themselves and have a personality that buyers like.  I am trying b)…  Would have been deeply hurt if no one had bought my panties by now.  😉

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=admin link=topic=694.msg4340#msg4340 date=1136325690]
Please refrain from offering to suck and blow cocks in Amsterdam. This is a panty fetish site.  lmao

Okay, well, how about in London?  LMAO  And I was just about to post offering that, too…  😉

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=cherie link=topic=268.msg4308#msg4308 date=1136011215]
Bubba,

You are very correct in that in an in the flesh BDSM relationship there would be a considerable time spent getting to know each other’s boundaries and establishing trust, but, as Karen points out, we are dealing with online interactions.  And not just that, but also with a very specialized sort of interactions – those between a paying (in some fashion) sub and his Mistress-for-hire.  In those circumstances the guy is often recklessly eager to dive right in to the most extreme fantasy scenario, even to the point of moving on to another Mistress if his first choice “holds back,” but shamefully lax in keeping to any actual discipline.  Very frustrating for the Mistress, especially since she’s likely to have put a HUGE amount of work into setting up the training program he insisted he wanted and is now ignoring.

x
Cherie

Cherie – MARRY ME!  Articulate AND a mind reader!  That was exactly what I was trying to say.  🙂

I wrote this original frustrated post when I was first starting out.  I’ve since learned to be more guarded in my time/energy investments with new/prospective clients.  I save most of my freebies for regulars who I know are committed to developing the Mistress/sissy relationship and are not just trying to get something for nothing.  There are a lot of so-called subs who shop around for a “Mistress” that will do exactly what he wants her to do, and if he doesn’t get what he wants right away, he’s off trying to solicit the next “Mistress”.  Even worse, these guys are usually not willing to pay anything for this one-sided relationship/service.

The amount of B.S. involved in searching for a good slave is what’s keeping me from looking for one, right now.  Just thinking about all those time wasters makes me tired…

[darkhairedkaren]

Sounds like someone trying to top from the bottom.  E-mail/online is such a controlled environment that any boundaries or limits are easily enforced.

Since this is the board for Mistresses, I’d love to hear about your experiences as either a sissy/slave or as a Master, BubbaTech.  You seem to have some definite ideas on the subject.

[darkhairedkaren]

I can’t imagine them sorting by name rather than by box.  Even though I’m in Canada I can’t imagine it’s very different here – I’ve had mail show up for me under a variety of wild and wonderful names, and it all got to me just fine, so long as the PO box # was correct.

Sounds like posties just being a pain in the neck…

[darkhairedkaren]

I’m finding there’s quite a lull at Christmas, I have no panties on order at the moment, so on New Year’s Eve I will be wearing whatever goes with my outfit that night.  :)  Haven’t even figured out what I’m doing for the 31st!

[darkhairedkaren]

I have sent quite a few packages with no return address, without problem.  As Ruby said, you can use a fake address, too.

I recently mailed some *ahem* questionable items…  I put no return address and in the note I wrote that the contents were my contribution to his art project (make up any artsy-name/title).  It didn’t get opened, but even if it did (and they could trace its sender), what are they going to say?  Probably just give a warning, like, “even if it’s for art you can’t mail that stuff through regular post.”  :ohmy:

[darkhairedkaren]

Merry Christmas one and all!  :kiss: 🙂

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=Delicious_Jess link=topic=633.msg4092#msg4092 date=1134780322]
Errr, NEWSFLASH!!! You’re on a fetish site Wahtaska. Or did you miss the sign?

Be tolerant my friend. No one bashes your panty fetish or love of all things hairy, so give the same back. We’re all in the same boat so be nice.

Could not have said it better myself.  :)  Too bad WahTuska felt he had to leave, but seeing as Asseater’s preference doesn’t affect anyone other than the direct participants, is not illegal, and involves consenting adults, it really is just another fetish.  Just because something crosses your personal line doesn’t mean everyone should abstain.  In my experience, requests for panties with lots of “ass” are just as common as requests for lots of “pussy” (smell, stain, taste, and deposits for both.)

[darkhairedkaren]

Thank you for the praise, Ray!  smt  I am glad your first panty purchase went over so well.  I love it when the postal service cooperates and delivers things lightning fast.  I’d wear another pair for you anytime, sweetie.  XOXO  :kiss:

[darkhairedkaren]

Shaving makes things MUCH CLEANER during menstruation.  If not for that I would shave for the sake of pictures/wearing a swimsuit.  Pubic hair poking out everywhere is gross, IMO.

I’m not very hairy, so I rarely shave anything except my puss.  Pluck the few hairs under the arms.

[darkhairedkaren]

[quote author=Pantylkr link=topic=646.msg4037#msg4037 date=1134579396]
Can any girls here do tricks?

I can’t do any tricks with my pussy, unless making a whole sausage disappear counts.  ;)  :cheer:

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