Direct connect

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  • #22976
    lowman
    Member

    can anyone tell what is the purpose of direct connect and what does it do

    #22982
    admin
    Keymaster

    It is basically what the “Friends” feature is on MySpace. If you have a connection with another member, you can find their profile easier, see that they are online, Instant message them faster, etc.

    #23004
    Serena
    Member

    Whilst we are on the subject.. I have found myself declining longtime pending requests from one- off random users … I guess I’m not comfortable having strangers on my friends list!

    How does everyone else manage their connections? is there a sensible criteria?

    x

    #23011
    Sasha
    Member

    I’m not trying to collect as many names as possible… I only add people I actually communicate with.

    I think that’s fair!

    :silly: :silly: :silly:

    #23012
    Love2Smell
    Member

    Serena wrote:

    Whilst we are on the subject.. I have found myself declining longtime pending requests from one- off random users … I guess I’m not comfortable having strangers on my friends list!

    How does everyone else manage their connections? is there a sensible criteria?

    x

    Hi Serena,

    I don’t have this issue here on Panty Hog, but I do have it on Used Panty World. Some new users seem to send “friend” invitations to every one, the day they open their accounts. I don’t know them and they don’t know me.

    I’m too old to be part of the Myspace scene, but it’s my understanding that some people who use social networking web sites like to “collect friends.” It’s a competition, a way of “keeping score.”

    I haven’t declined a single friend request. I never know when the person making the request might actually take an interest in communicating with me, and I see no reason to slap a complete stranger in the face prematurely.

    BUT I won’t consider a friend request seriously unless it is accompanied by a personal email exchange which is enjoyable for both of us. A good conversation. That’s a big part of friendship, wouldn’t you say?

    :S

    #23015
    admin
    Keymaster

    As Love2Smell noted, some people want to get as many friends as possible as soon as possible. It’s not necessarily a “bad” thing, hopefully the person does at least try to get to know the members of their friends list in time.

    Other people may prefer to only make the friends connection with those that are already their friends. Either way can work. You can always “de-friend” the users in your friends list so I say do what works for you.

    -PK

    #23018

    I only have one so far and it is someone I have talked to and now he is a buyer! I would approved anyone I think but I would want to get to know them.

    Now on used panty world I did do the send out a bunch of friend request thing, not lie… but after they approved I made a point to send each one a message introducing myself, and such…

    I still check often to see if others have approved and each time I try to send them a message of some kind saying Hi.

    The ones who replied to i try to keep an open dialog with and have even given out my Yahoo ID a few times….

    NO lie i also sent the URL to my blog, but i was not meaning to spam them per se… i really did want to get to know them

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