Is buying panties being unfaithful?

I would be upset to find out without him telling me first.
If he’d asked me, I would had grant him permission to cheat 😉

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if my husband wanted to buy panties i would be fine with this as long as i knew about it, if i found out he did it without telling me i would go mental!:mad:

This is a great but heavy question meyerlansky123. As seen by the responses so far, it seems that it is something that might vary between each person and each couple. To get a fair look, turn it around and ask “If your wife or girlfriend was chatting up another guy, looking at his nude or semi-nude photos, and buying his dirty underwear to enjoy, how would you feel”? Ouch! :ohmy:

The optimal situation would be to have your partner involved in some manner and to use the panty fetish/buying experience as way to spice up your relationship with the person you love. If that can’t be done, then yes, you cover your tracks like your life depended on it because if your significant other finds out you have been enjoying panties on the sly, there is a chance that they will be very hurt.

🙂 PK

Two years ago, when I first discovered the Hog, I contributed a story which explained how I got here. The story covers a lot of ground (I can go on, can’t I? So much for the myth of taciturn men), but it includes some discussion of whether panties constitute cheating.

No, I don’t answer the question, but I do think about it. And I know that my wife would definitely consider it to be cheating. But, if our sex life was what it used to be — or if she would just leave her OWN panties in a suitable condition for me to enjoy, I probably would not even be here…

Rather than repeat myself, here’s a link to the story. I hope it will encourage some discussion.