iKobo links do suck, I had a similar problem when I tested them. What I do is give clients the Ikobo link with instructions on how to send me money manually. Yes it is a pain but iKobo is about the next best thing to UK Nochex (which only accept UK cards).
Im a member of MoneyBookers too, but havent used them so far as customers have to sign up before paying you, and is a huge turn off for them.
PPPay – I have yet to look into but again customers have to verify their card etc before the money is released. All this “time wasting” really is a pain in the butt!!!
Maybe get a little form set up on your site Kashia (maybe i could help you :)) so people can let you know what they want and then you email them the amount they must pay you with simple instructions on how to do it.
It seems to be all there is out there right now. Thing is most payment processors are scared because of the type of business we do – they have no guarantee of customer care/service, etc which is evidently a problem due to a loophole in the laws.
Just whatever you do, leave PayPal well alone. Dont even try it!
Love CInds x